In the past year, multiple sports figures have been in the media spotlight for acts of violence. Where spousal abuse and/or assault are concerned, there is little debate. Yet when it comes to children, there is disagreement about what is considered acceptable adult behavior.
This April, the local Child Abuse Prevention Month campaign focuses on spanking and alternatives to violence against children.
In Santa Barbara County, Child Abuse Prevention Month activities are coordinated by the Child Abuse Prevention Council (CAPC): a network of 20 public and private human services agencies and parents, with leadership from the Santa Barbara County’s Department of Social Services (DSS). Child Abuse Prevention Month gives CAPC an opportunity to share information on how to strengthen families so children can thrive.
The fact is, parenting is hard. It can be a challenge to teach children to listen, show respect and behave appropriately. It’s helpful to know what the experts are saying about the best way to help children develop those skills. Just like we learned that hand washing can prevent illness, and seat belts can prevent injuries in car accidents, we now know that spanking is not an effective way to help children learn good behavior. Spanking may temporarily stop bad behavior, but in the long run, it does not teach children the relationship skills they need to thrive in the world. In fact, spanking gives children confusing messages about trust and love and the use of aggression to solve problems.
CAPC wants parents to know that there is a better way to help children grow into responsible adults. Positive discipline is the key. Download this handy tip sheet on positive discipline to learn why children misbehave, and how parents can address it without spanking. More tip sheets and parenting classes are available from Family Resource Centers and community-based organizations throughout Santa Barbara County.
Throughout April and beyond, you’ll notice CAPC members taking the message public with posters (like the one pictured above), media appearances (like this radio show), and more. For more information on CAPC, visit www.preventchildabusesb.org.
